Wisdom Cries Out In The Streets…On Stoning The Duggars

Wisdom crieth without; she uttereth her voice in the streets: She crieth in the chief place of concourse, in the openings of the gates: in the city she uttereth her words, saying, How long, ye simple ones, will ye love simplicity? and the scorners delight in their scorning, and fools hate knowledge?  Turn you at my reproof: behold, I will pour out my spirit unto you, I will make known my words unto you.(Proverbs 1:20-23)

I believe that one of the ways Wisdom from God cries out in the streets, is through notable current events. Through the media culture we are instantly and constantly apprised of current events and developments ; be it in sports, politics, entertainment, or news, there is often a message beneath the event, for Him who has ears to hear.

The Duggar family has become a popular cultural phenomenon through the reality television shown “19 Kids and Counting.” Hundreds of thousands of Americans have  followed the openly Christian, homeschooling family through their daily routine of feeding, shopping, chores, building a large house for the family, family prayer, countless births, courtships,proposals, and even marriages.

There has been something fascinating to many, about this insight into a middle American culture of large families, Christian values, chores, sharing and respect that many  Americans and even others, thought was long gone.

The Duggars has been a larger- than- life witness to an entire subculture that is very much alive and even thriving in much of America.

But there is a new twist to the story.

Evidently, the oldest of the 19 children, Joshua, had to confess recently to molesting some of his sisters and a family friend, 12 years ago, when he was 14 -15 years old. He has expressed his regret and stepped down from his position on the Family Research Council. What can we hear Wisdom saying from this unfortunate episode?

1) That the True Witness of Christ is not a “perfect family” but Redemption. The subculture that the Duggars spring from is straight out of developments within evangelical Christianity in the 1970s and 1980s.Born again Christians rejected the “anti-child” , ZPG,(zero population growth) ethos of their time. There was also a tremendous evangelical reaction to the liberal indoctrination and usurpation of the public schools, resulting in the Christian school and Homeschool movement.

Out of this sprang a vast new emphasis on family, discipline, the biblical role of the Husband and Wife, biblical work ethic, the rejection of the dating culture in favor of courting, and the attempt to protect the children from worldliness in the toxic culture.

I confess, in the interest of full disclosure, that this is very much something I whole  heartedly agree with, and see as positive.

However it can lead to an unfortunate emphasis on the external . The temptation is to think that doing ‘family’ just right, and being a perfect example of a Christian family, each kid in submission and everything in order, is the ideal Christian witness.

The problem is original sin.Even if we deliver our children out of the abominable public schools, and get them to read the classical literature, and teach them to work hard children are still sinners.

There will be sin, and there is a Christian way to deal with it. The witness is Redemption, not external perfection.

The Duggars did deal with their sinning son, he was exposed, he confessed his sin.  Years later when his future wife and her parents were introduced to the family, Josh told them openly of his sin and that he had been helped by God to overcome it. “Twelve years ago, as a young teenager, I acted inexcusably for which I am extremely sorry and deeply regret,” Duggar said in a statement posted on Facebook on Thursday. “I hurt others, including my family and close friends. I confessed this to my parents who took several steps to help me address the situation. “We spoke with the authorities where I confessed my wrongdoing, and my parents arranged for me and those affected by my actions to receive counseling. I understood that if I continued down this wrong road that I would end up ruining my life.” What more can you do? Should Duggar be considered a danger? Should he be made a Pariah? But for those of us who have forgotten what the true witness if Christ is, this will be a severe trial.

2) Who says you are supposed to put your family on Television? I think Wisdom might be warning us of the dangers of setting ourselves up as an example. I realize that “we are the light of the world” and the “Salt of the earth” but I doubt that meant we should present our entire family on television for years on end. I  cringe when I see the Duggars and the Duck Dynasty clan, because I know that even the finest families are composed of sinners, and I also know that those who would viscerally hate all that these traditional families stand for, the sexually deviant, and the Feminists, would absolutely love to uncover “dirt” on either one of them to discredit the idyllic scenes of family prayer and faith and the public statements against the cultural transgressions. As a Pastor and Blogger I do live a somewhat public life, however on a very severely limited scale. I wouldn’t want my little ones or my grandchildren to have to live their tender, developing years on television for all to see. If I am attacked that is one thing, but to expose my wife and children to attack, is unthinkable.

3) The reaction to this incident reveals all we need to know about the Duggars friends and critics. There are some Christians and moralists who are already savaging Josh Duggar. They believe that he has damaged the gospel, by serving on the Family Research Council,knowing of his previous sin,  or by being on Television at all. But would anyone want their sins from the age of 14 to be held against them twelve years later? Is there not Redemption? Didn’t Jesus die for his sins?

The sexual deviants are rejoicing! So too are the rest of the Anti-Christians. They are so happy that , that “Holier than thou”, “perfect little family” has been shamed and their nakedness has been exposed! They love to see the dirty laundry of a pro-life, pro-family, pro-American Christian family. The Washingtom Post online article featured a video clip  showing Josh Duggar calling for Marriage as being between one man and one woman, as if his previous transgressions nullifies everything he has said.

What is their answer?Is it that there is no use protesting sin, we should just succumb to every evil proclivity? I would rather live among people like the Duggars, who though imperfectly, tried to stem the tide of evil in their own families, than among those who just “normalize” perversion as though it is inevitable anyway.

Then there are those of us who are grieved. Grieved for the Duggar family and the exposure of their shame. Grieved to be reminded that even in the most sanitized, and seemingly protected environment, Sin still destroys and rears its ugly head. We are grieved for the young women whom Josh touched inappropriately 12 years ago, and the willingness of sinners to re-open any wounds that have been healed.

If those who rejoiced over the Duggars shame ever thought about it, they would realize that the same God who allowed for the exposure of Josh’s sin, will one day call each of them to account for their sins. Jesus told us, “There is nothing hidden that shall not be revealed, and nothing whispered in the ear that shall not be shouted from the roof tops”.

4) This little episode is a heavy warning about the power and danger of sin, and the fact that neither homeschooling, courting, manners, morals and ethics, are any substitute for the need of full Redemption through the blood of Jesus. All of us are sinners, we all need grace and cannot afford to throw stones at anyone. Being reconciled to God through the death and resurrection of Jesus is the only antidote to sin. Please pray for the Duggars and their family. Pray also for the outspoken deviants and moral anarchists who rejoice in their shame. Pray for the Moralists who are now tempted to hate this family, for their failure in the past, and for having the audacity to present their family as some kind of testimony.

The Lord is gracious, and full of compassion; slow to anger, and of great mercy. The Lord is good to all: and his tender mercies are over all his works.  All thy works shall praise thee, O Lord; and thy saints shall bless thee.  They shall speak of the glory of thy kingdom, and talk of thy power;  To make known to the sons of men his mighty acts, and the glorious majesty of his kingdom.  Thy kingdom is an everlasting kingdom, and thy dominion endureth throughout all generations. The Lord upholdeth all that fall, and raiseth up all those that be bowed down.  The eyes of all wait upon thee; and thou givest them their meat in due season.(Psalm 145:8-15)

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8 Responses to Wisdom Cries Out In The Streets…On Stoning The Duggars

  1. Bravo! Excellent article. I too was grieved at hearing this news, but it is just like the lewd fellows of the baser sort to dig up sins that have already been dealt with. This is probably the best article I have read on this subject.

    -Andrew Alan Buhman

  2. Ken Myers says:

    Wow. Where to begin on this. This takes me back to the days I served on the mission field in Peru. Oftentimes I would think of the societal changes going on in America back home, and how ‘seemingly’ the missionary families were shielded from them by the simpler lifestyle they practiced while living and working in an isolated mission culture. I saw the way these people lived their day by day lives, and I tended to put them up on a pedestal.
    Years later, I found that I had to readjust my thinking, as I witnessed how some of them, including their grownup kids, ended up. One family who came in about the same time as me and ended up serving in Mexico has an older son estranged to a degree from his folks. Another family similar to them had a married couple whose marriage ended in divorce because of the wife’s adultery. The husband has since remarried and that couple has gone on to live a happy and prosperous life and ministry. A translator couple whose kids live lives closer to the Kardasians than to the Duggers, but the parents, I would imagine, still toil on the field translating the scriptures for their chosen people group and still lift their wayward kids up to the Throne of Grace. Happily their youngest daughter ended up getting married, has kids and the family serve Wycliffe now in Papua New Guinea. And then there is a family whose parents got divorced and whose father struggles with Parkinson’s disease, having been forced to leave the mission because of health issues. I suppose I could think of other examples.
    My deep thanks to Pastor Bill for this article, as it has helped me reconcile the disappointment I’ve felt about my former mission colleagues. In retrospect, I should have included in my list of flawed mission examples that of myself. After all, my own ministry ended because of my own sin which was later exposed and consequently dealt with. But life does in fact go on, and God’s redemption is a true reality that I know very well.

  3. Sharon Keith says:

    Thank you for this message. It is hard to bend and forgive, but in the end I’d rather be doing God’s will than be caught up in my own self-righteousness. “Let there be peace on earth, and let it begin with me.”

  4. Garry says:

    Why do you know extend the same level of grace to the so-called false teachers that you constantly abuse on this website? Aren’t they imperfect human beings who sometimes fail too?

  5. Garry says:

    Why do you not extend the same level of grace to the so-called false teachers that you constantly abuse on this website? Aren’t they imperfect human beings who sometimes fail too?

  6. billrandles says:

    Garry, please show me one instance of abuse of a false teacher on this website. Did Jesus abuse them when he warned of them?

    • Garry says:

      The point of my question remains. You defended a family who failed and broke the law, something which false teachers do. You should be impartial and show them the same grace.

  7. peaceforeternity says:

    I cannot understand why Christians would want to do a TV show. I am not judging Josh for past sins, that is not my business, but when you put your family ‘out there’ for millions of people to watch, you had better make sure that you have no secrets. And we ALL have things from the past that we would rather keep private. I have never seen their show, I once watched an episode of Duck Dynasty, and honestly I thought it was rather silly. I personally cannot see that a show like that, is in any way, good for the Duggars, or for, and most importantly, the promotion of the Gospel. This is exactly what people who hate God and Christians, will seize upon, to mock. I have been under conviction myself, for what I watch on television, and in fact, watching television itself. Can we believe that the Lord really condones this show? That followers of Jesus can justify putting their family in that situation? I see no wisdom in it. Of course the world will see them, and us as, hypocrites. The issue I have, is why did Josh’s dad (name?) wait a year before taking him to see a local police officer? Is that true? And it seems that officer was later jailed for his own sins. As Christians we are also under the rule of law, so even if Josh’s sin had been dealt with on a personal level, it was wrong to keep it from the law.

    I do have sympathy for the Duggars, in so much as that we have all sinned and come up short.. but I cannot see why they did the show in the first place. I don’t know when the show first aired, but if it was airing when this happened, the father should have shut the whole thing down.

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